"I don't do things to please other people," said Nikki. "I mean, I didn't get my nipples pierced because some guy wanted me to, I did it because I wanted to. It cost me a boyfriend 'cause it totally grossed out the guy I was dating at the time and he moved on. The guy I'm dating now was not happy about me posing for these photos and sending them to NN, but I told him if he wouldn't take them, I'd find somebody who would. He got into it once we got started, but we didn't have sex afterwards: is that like a first for a couple?"